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Up until about seven years ago, I had a somewhat black and white view of sex and adultery within a committed relationship.

Case in point:. Talking to my friends, many of them shared the viewpoints I held, especially points one eanting two. Call it a mid-life crisis if you want, but some time in my early forties it started to bother me that I had no sex drive.

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I felt like I was 40 going on I decided there was only one way to Find My Mojo: I wanted fkr incredible rush involved in having a crush on someone; I wanted to anticipate their kiss, look forward to their message.

And having sex — Men wanting married looking for affair wanting to have sex — was also an appealing prospect. Reconciling this new desire 69777 mature woman my attitudes to infidelity refer to point lokoing above is a whole other story; but somehow or other, I managed to justify it and so begun the process of trying to find a lover.

So, here I am seven years later.

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In that time, I have met with around 60 men, marriedd coffee or a drink. Of those 60, around 90 per cent were married or in long term relationships, the remainder single.

What started as a desire for an affair and yes, I had a couple evolved instead into a study, of sorts. I have become a keen observer of that elusive species: So… what can I tell you about those 50 or so married men? What did I learn?

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Quite possibly I screened out this sub-species with my thorough selection process because -without exception, ALL seemed like nice men. Family men. Decent men. This was not what I was expecting. And yet, here they were.

Talking to me about committing adultery. Confiding in me about their experiences so far. The remaining men made it very clear that in an ideal world, their sexual and usually emotional needs would be met by their wives. Under no circumstances did they want to jeopardise their marriage or leave their wife. Their wives not had not only lost interest in sex, but often treated these men like Men wanting married looking for affair were a bother.

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A lot like how I treated my husband, in fact…. I found myself bewildered — I understood why I was there but I questioned why they were. I was asking the same question over and over: You obviously love your wife and cherish your children… why are you doing this? They felt they had reached a crossroads, and the affair path was the lesser of three evils. In their minds, they were left with three options: I found myself questioning my own attitude toward Men wanting married looking for affair husband; my dismissal of his sexual and dare Looking for nsa sex friday all day admit it emotional needs, my attitude that if I could live without sex, so could he.

And this is where I learnt my next important lesson. But I never actually Needed it. I would Men wanting married looking for affair this to my husband.

Men do NEED sex. It is not the same as it is for many women. Imagine really needing to do a wee but having no access to a toilet. Going all day without food and having a constantly growling stomach. I cannot think, I cannot work, I cannot focus on anything.

Over the past seven years I have come to realise that for the majority of men and possibly a minority of women — depending on their hormonal levels — sex really is a NEED. Those 50 or so conversations have provided life changing lessons for me.

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I have a whole new understanding of what it must be like for my husband to go without sex and affection. Decent men have affairs, ladies. They have affairs when they're left feeling like it's the best option in a bad, sad hand. Leave a comment.

Men wanting married looking for affair in point: Infidelity — infidelity was for arseholes. If a man has an affairhe most likely thinks with his dick and lacks the inner strength to work through the challenges relationships bring.

If a woman has an affair, she is jeopardising her family, demeaning herself, and betraying the sisterhood. Sex — I liked sex as much as the next woman. That is to say, I used to. Agfair byI was 40 with two Men wanting married looking for affair under six. I was marrried. I was trying to run the household. I had no interest in sex anymore; Beautiful women seeking real sex Ely on the odd occasion I did feel a tingling between my thighs, by the time I lkoking up the logistics of following through, the moment had usually passed.

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